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    November 30

    Plan to make this year the best

    在公司整理书本的时候,发现里面夹了一张大学时老师派的一篇文章,很怀念,要把它记下来!

     

    Plan to make this year the best

     

    Make this coming year better than all the others. Promise to do some things you've always wanted to do but "couldn't find the time."

    Call up a forgotten friend. Drop a bad memory and replace it with some pleasant ones. Share a funny story with someone whose spirits are low. A good laugh can be better than any medicine.

    Vow not to make a promise you don't think you can keep. Pay a debt(which i don't have, luckily). Give a soft answer. Free yourself of envy and malice.

    Encourage some youth to do his or her best. Share your experiences and offer support. Young people need role models more than they need critics.

    Make a genuine effort to stay in closer touch with family and friends. Resolve to stop magnifying small problems. don't say things you will be sorry for.

    find time to be kind and thoughtful. All of us have the same allotment--24 hours a day. Give a compliment. It could provide someone with a badly needed lift. Think things through. Forgive an injustice. Listen more. Be kind.

    Apologize when you realize you are wrong. An apology never diminishes a person. It elevates him. Don't tell everyone how wonderful you are. If you've done something praiseworthy, someone will notice eventually.

    Try to understand a point of view that is different from your own. Few things are 100 per cent one way or another. Examine the demands you make on others.

    When you feel your temper getting out of control, ask yourself, “will it matter a week from today?” Laugh the loudest when the joke is on you.

    The sure way to have friends is to be one. We are all connected by out humanity. We need each other. Avoid pessimists. They drag you down and contribute nothing.

    Don’t discourage a beginner from trying something risky. Nothing risked or tried means nothing gained. Be optimistic. The “I-can-do anything” spirit is the fuel that makes things go.

    Go to war against animosity and complacency. Express your gratitude. Give credit when it’s due-and even when it isn’t. It will make you look good.

    Read something uplifting. Throw out the bad reading. You wouldn’t eat garbage, why put it in your head? Don’t abandon your old-fashioned principles. They never go out of style. When courage is needed, ask yourself, “If not me, who? If not now, when?”

    Take better care of yourself. Remember, you are all you’ve got. Pass up the second helping of food. You don’t need it. Vow to eat more sensibly, You’ll feel better and look better too.

    Don't put up with cigarette smoke. Nobody has the right to pollute your air or give you cancer. If someone says, “This is a free country,” remind him or her that the country may be free. However, no person is free if he has a habit he can’t control, like smoking. Return those books you borrowed. Reschedule that missed dental appointment. Clean out your closet.

    Take those photos out of the drawer. Put them in an album.

    Give yourself a reality check. Phoniness is transparent, and it is tiresome. Take pleasure in the beauty and the wonders of nature. A flower is God’s miracle.

    Walk tall, and smile more. You’ll look 10 years younger. If you have love in your lift, this year can be the best one ever.

    ----By Ann Landers

    November 17

    讨厌的,喜欢的。。。

    今晚又给大佬甲呃左去中六,话系呃,其实我都想见拒地的,好似一个星期无见了吧。
    点知去到,竟然遇到讨厌的人,一副自信满满的样子不顾大佬劝告走埋来我度食烟,还在旁边对我的象棋指指点点!激死我,你知唔知我D甘史的人揾个同我差唔多史的人捉象棋,就系为了享受个过程?我想学的话去学习班啦,使你教!抢左我盘棋来捉,仲要后来贵甘巴闭的同我讲捉赢左,帮我挽回一点面子,发神经!大佬乙在旁边冷笑说,唔使挽啦,黑晒了。条友竟然听唔明!睇来我同拒八字相冲,样样都睇拒唔顺眼。唔系睇在拒系大佬乙的朋友,早就一脚踹死他了!
    最近特别躁,呵呵。
    可以说最怕人地请我食二手烟,奈何大佬乙又系一个烟鬼,呵呵,食饭最中意去非吸烟区,折磨一下拒。自从上次左脚生日后咳了一个月,大佬乙依家已经好自觉,忍唔住要食烟的时候就自己走开,或者趁我去toilet的时候抓紧时间,成日埋怨我去toilet甘快返来,呵呵。虽然只是举手之劳,已经让我很窝心。对我来说这就是好朋友,你要食烟我唔阻止你,但系我唔食得二手烟,你又识得体谅,也无必要一定要边个迁就边个。今日拒个发瘟朋友要埋来毒害我的时候,拒出声阻止一下,我就已经觉得足够了。
    很不喜欢去大排档,不是嫌弃它cheap,只是我实在太惹蚊,都11月份了,坐2个钟还是被咬了四五个包,都唔知我系乜构造!衰人大佬还坐鬼甘耐都唔肯走。拒两个特别中意去大排档,还要是露天那种,真系拿命!好不容易熬了3个钟,终于都到了极限,不行,我要先走了。大佬个发瘟朋友仲要话,次次见我都系甘,成晚唔出声,早早就返屋企。顶拒个心口,唔系给面两个大佬,2分钟都唔会坐响度。
    返来的时候大佬无出声,唔知系咪觉得我扫兴,无计啦,我尽左力了,我知拒地唔会因为甘嬲我的,下次有机会再对拒地好D啦,呵呵,被种坏了。